Being Romantic.

A few days back someone asked me in the mid of a serious conversation , Are you romantic? I didnt expect such a question and I was not prepared to answer it. I didn't know what it means, romance and being romantic. So later when I reached back home, I searched in google to find it; atleast the exact literal meaning. What I could find there are :
romantic
  • belonging to or characteristic of Romanticism or the Romantic Movement in the arts; "romantic poetry"
  • a soulful or amorous idealist
  • A person with romantic character; A person who is behaving romantically; Concerned with, or conducive to, romance and love; Idealistic yet impractical; Passionate and imaginative rather than structured
which unfortunately didnt enlighten me to find , how is it being romantic! :(

So after giving it a fine thought I came to this conclusion. Being romantic includes the following practices.
1. Flirt: Express, expose and exaggerate your interest in your partner and seduce. The more genuine it  seems, the more successful you are.
2. Show care : Showing concern and love the way your partner expects.
3. Be original : Try your own ideas and something different which surprises your partner.
4. Physical contact : A kiss or hug or a contact at the right moment and right place will do wonders :)
5. Be a little more possessive.
6. At times, act childlike.

The above 6 points make the first-cut thought result on "Romance" .
Note: As I never got a chance to be in a romantic relationship, these are purely theoretical based on common sense.

Cheers,
Tressy



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